What to do if Accused of Domestic Violence

Domestic violencecharge(s) are serious that can affect everyone involved. The victim can suffer serious injuries and even death. The alleged abuser can face prison time and a damaged reputation. They may have a restraining order against them. In some cases, the accusations may even be false.

In New Jersey, domestic violence refers to the occurrence of one of the following criminal offenses:

• Homicide
• Assault
• Sexual assault
• Terroristic threats
• Stalking
• Kidnapping
• False imprisonment
• Criminal restraint
• Criminal sexual contact
• Criminal coercion
• Criminal mischief
• Criminal trespass
• Lewdness
• Robbery
• Burglary
• Contempt
• Harassment
• Cyber-harassment

Whether or not the accusations against you are true, you need to defend yourself. Contact a criminal defense lawyer right away for the right advice. Here are some dos and don’ts to keep in mind.

What to Do if You Are Accused

• Hire a defense attorney immediately: A lawyer experienced in domestic violence cases can help you navigate the legal system, protect your rights, and develop a strategy.
• Understand and follow any protective orders: If a restraining order is issued, obey it fully — even if you believe it’s unjust. Violating the order can lead to immediate arrest and additional charges.
• Document everything: Write down your version of events, collect text messages, emails, call logs, and any communication that could support your case. If there are witnesses, get their contact information.
• Limit communication with the accuser: Even if they contact you first, avoid responding directly. All communication should go through your lawyer.
• Comply with law enforcement: If arrested, remain polite and only give basic identifying information. Do not answer substantive questions without your attorney present.

What Not to Do

• Don’t contact the accuser: Do not communicate with the accuser in any way. Any contact can be misinterpreted and may violate a protective order.
• Don’t post on social media: Avoid posting anything about the case, your accuser, or even vague posts about your situation. Prosecutors may use this against you.
• Don’t destroy evidence: Deleting texts, emails, or call logs could make you look guilty and could result in additional charges like obstruction of justice.
• Don’t discuss the case with friends or family: Anything you say could potentially be used in court. Only discuss the details with your lawyer.
• Don’t ignore legal documents: Failing to respond to court notices, hearings, or protective orders can lead to automatic rulings against you.
• Don’t assume the case will go away: Take every accusation seriously. Even if the accuser wants to drop the charges, the prosecutor can still move forward.

Contact Us Today

If you have been accused of domestic violence, you shouldn’t handle the accusations on your own. Seek legal help right away to protect yourself.

Domestic violence charges threaten not only your rights and freedoms but also your reputation. Contact an Atlantic City criminal defense lawyer from The Law Offices of Melissa Rosenblum, LLC for a solid defense. We’ll help you get the best outcome possible. To schedule a consultation, give us a call at (609) 904-6262 or contact us online.